Posture and Mental Health: What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You

We’re honored to share that Advancements with Ted Danson recently spotlighted Amae Health’s work in transforming mental health care for people with severe mental illness (SMI). This episode offers an inside look into our unique, outcome-driven approach that combines technology and compassionate care to support our members’ journeys toward lasting stability and a higher quality of life.

At Amae, we’re dedicated to providing more than just treatment. Our approach includes personalized therapy, medical support, lifestyle guidance, and a strong community connection. We’re committed to creating spaces where healing and growth are possible.

Catch the full story on Amazon Prime Video, Advancements Season 3, Episode 9, to see how we’re helping those who need it most.

More than 1 billion people worldwide are currently living with a mental health disorder, according to the World Health Organization (WHO). While those numbers are global, the experience is always personal - showing up in relationships, families, friendships, and workplaces in ways that can be hard to explain or predict.

When it’s someone you love, helping can feel overwhelming. You might worry about saying the wrong thing, making it worse, or pushing them away. And when you don’t know what to do, fear often turns into silence. If you’re searching for how to help someone with mental health issues, this guide offers practical steps for what to say, what to do, and when to involve professional support.

Why Supporting Someone With Mental Illness Feels So Hard 

Supporting a loved one through mental health struggles can feel overwhelming because the situation is high-stakes, and it’s not always clear what will help. You might freeze, worrying you’ll say the wrong thing, or feel guilty for not noticing sooner. This reaction is common. A scoping review of 92 studies found that family caregivers frequently report psychological strain, social isolation, and practical stressors while supporting a loved one.

Another reason it’s hard: mental health symptoms are often invisible. Your loved one may look “fine” in public, then fall apart at home. That mismatch creates confusion, second-guessing, and mixed signals that make it hard to know what’s really going on.

Common Signs Someone May Be Struggling

Mental health concerns can show up in small, gradual changes. Someone may seem more withdrawn, less engaged, or emotionally distant. In other cases, the shift is more functional - changes in sleep, appetite, energy, or daily routines. When you’re supporting someone with mental illness, the goal is not to label - it’s to notice patterns that suggest they may need help, care, or professional support.

These signs don’t confirm a diagnosis, but they can signal that someone may need support. Look for changes that last more than a few days and affect relationships, work, or self-care. If you’re unsure how to help someone with mental health issues, start by observing what changed, when it started, and what seems to make it worse or better.

How To Talk To Someone About Their Mental Health

Create a Safe, Private Space

When you’re supporting someone with mental illness, the setting matters. Pick a calm time when they don’t feel watched, pressured, or stuck. Privacy reduces shame and defensiveness, which makes it easier for them to speak honestly. Even a simple line like, “Can we talk somewhere quiet for a minute?” often feels safer than a serious, formal sit-down.

Listen More Than You Speak

You don’t need the perfect words - you just need to stay present. Active listening builds trust because it shows you can handle their feelings without panicking or taking control.

What good listening looks like:

• You let them finish without interrupting
• You reflect back: “That sounds exhausting.”
• You ask before giving advice
• You stay calm, even if it’s uncomfortable
• You don’t argue with their emotions

Try open-ended questions like:

• “What’s been feeling the hardest lately?”
• “When did you start feeling this way?”
• “What helps even a little bit?”
• “Do you want support, or just someone to listen?”

Avoid Diagnosing or Labeling

Even if you’ve read a lot online, don’t try to label what others are going through. Guessing diagnoses can make them feel exposed, analyzed, or pressured - and that usually triggers defensiveness. The goal is to protect trust, not prove you’re right.

Labels can also create fear (“So you think I’m broken?”) or shut down (“You don’t get me at all”). Instead of diagnosing, focus on what you notice and what they’re experiencing: “I’ve seen you struggling, and I care.”

How To Support Someone With Mental Illness Day To Day

Offer Practical Help

When you’re supporting someone with mental illness, big speeches usually matter less than small, steady actions. Many people struggle with basic tasks when their mind is overwhelmed, so practical support can remove pressure without forcing them to talk. Keep it simple, specific, and easy to accept - “I can do this for you” works better than “Let me know if you need anything.”

Easy ways to help day to day:

• Bring food or send groceries
• Help with laundry or dishes
• Run one quick errand (pharmacy, mail, store)
• Sit with them while they make a hard phone call
• Offer a ride to therapy or appointments

Stay Connected

Consistency matters. Regular check-ins remind them they’re not alone - even if they don’t respond much. A short message can be enough to keep the connection alive without adding pressure.

Try low-pressure check-ins like:

• “Thinking of you today.”
• “No need to reply - just here.”
• “Want company or space right now?”

Be Patient with Their Progress

Recovery rarely moves in a straight line. If you’re learning how to help someone with mental health issues, one of the most important things is keeping your expectations realistic. Some days they’ll seem okay, then suddenly crash again - that doesn’t mean they’re failing. Healing can be unpredictable, especially when they’re building coping skills or starting treatment.

A healthier mindset is that progress happens in small steps over time. Stay steady, notice tiny wins, and try not to take setbacks personally.

Encouraging Professional Mental Health Support

If you’re worried about someone, bringing up professional support can feel uncomfortable - but it doesn’t have to feel forceful. A simple, steady approach usually works best:

1. Lead with care, not control: Start with what you’ve noticed and why you’re concerned, without pushing them to “fix it” immediately.
2. Use gentle, low-pressure language: Try “You don’t have to do this alone,” or “Would you be open to talking to someone?”
3. Offer clear options, not ultimatums: Therapy can provide emotional support, psychiatry can help with medication guidance (including mood stabilizers, when clinically appropriate), and structured clinical care may help when symptoms affect daily life.

If you’re unsure what level of care makes sense, our breakdown of PHP vs IOP can help you understand the difference between structured outpatient options. You can also help by finding providers, offering to sit with them while they call, or going with them to the first appointment.

What To Do If Things Feel Serious

Trust your instincts if their behavior shifts fast or their functioning drops sharply. Serious warning signs can include extreme withdrawal, hopelessness, risky behavior, or inability to handle basic daily needs. In those moments, don’t try to manage it alone - involve urgent professional support.

Quick checklist:

• They seem unsafe or out of control
• They stop eating, sleeping, or leaving bed
• They isolate completely and stop responding
• They express intense despair or “no way out” thinking
• You feel scared to leave them alone

How Amae Health Can Help

Amae Health is a psychiatry-led mental health clinic that provides structured, compassionate care in person. It’s designed for people who need support for depression, anxiety, trauma-related symptoms, mood disorders, and complex emotional struggles that affect daily life. Care is coordinated across a clinical team, so treatment can include therapy, psychiatric evaluation, and ongoing support based on real progress. 

Remember: supporting someone with mental illness doesn’t have to be alone. If you’re worried about a loved one, you can reach out to Amae Health to explore next steps, ask questions, or help them get connected to care. 

Contact Amae Health today to schedule an appointment or learn about referral options.

The short answer: for many people, yes. The fuller answer depends on your diagnosis, your history with other treatments, and how your brain responds. That nuance matters because if you are reading this, you have already tried the straightforward answers.

Maybe you have been through two or three medications that helped a little, but not enough. Maybe therapy gave you tools, but you still wake up with a tight chest and a mind already spinning. Maybe you feel permanently stuck in fight-or-flight. And trying yet another treatment feels less like hope and more like another chance to be disappointed.

This article is not here to make promises. It is here to give you a clear picture of what TMS therapy for anxiety involves - what the evidence supports, what is still emerging, and whether this might be the right next step for you.

What Is TMS Therapy for Anxiety?

Transcranial magnetic stimulation, or TMS, is a non-invasive brain stimulation technique. A device placed near your scalp delivers focused magnetic pulses that stimulate specific brain regions - no surgery, no anesthesia, no medication entering your bloodstream. You sit in a chair, fully awake, while a coil delivers brief pulses that feel like tapping on your scalp. Afterward, you drive yourself home.

Here is what TMS for anxiety looks like in practice:

• Non-invasive - no needles, no implants, no sedation required
• Outpatient - done in a clinic, no hospitalization
• Session length - typically 20 to 40 minutes
• Course length - 4 to 6 weeks, five sessions per week (20-30 sessions total)
• Common sensations - rhythmic tapping on the scalp, clicking sound, mild scalp pressure

Most people tolerate it well from the first session, and any scalp discomfort typically lessens within the first week.

Why People Consider TMS for Anxiety

TMS therapy for anxiety tends to enter the picture when standard treatments have not worked well enough, or when a person wants an option that does not involve more systemic medication. Common reasons people seek TMS:

• Multiple medications tried with limited or inconsistent results
• Side effects (weight changes, emotional blunting, sexual dysfunction) that were hard to sustain
• Partial response to therapy - better, but still significantly impaired
• Anxiety co-occurring with depression, complicating treatment response
• Preference for a non-medication approach for personal or medical reasons

How Does TMS Help With Anxiety?

Anxiety disorders are associated with an imbalance between brain regions - an overactive amygdala (the brain's alarm system) and reduced activity in the prefrontal cortex, which handles top-down regulation. Think of it as the alarm going off constantly while the manager who silences it is underperforming.

TMS for anxiety targets these circuits directly. By stimulating the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex (DLPFC), it encourages that regulatory region to become more active - helping the brain reduce fear responses and improve emotional balance. It is not adding a chemical; it is nudging specific neural circuits toward healthier patterns.

What Symptoms Can TMS Improve?

TMS works through neuroplasticity - the brain's capacity to rewire itself through repeated stimulation. This is gradual. Most people notice meaningful changes in weeks 3 through 6, not week one. Symptoms people commonly report improving:

• Persistent rumination and racing thoughts
• Sleep difficulties - both falling and staying asleep
• Emotional overwhelm from stressors that feel disproportionately intense
• Physical tension - jaw clenching, muscle tightness, shallow breathing
• Hypervigilance - the persistent sense of being "on" even in safe situations

Individual responses vary, which is why clinical evaluation and ongoing monitoring matter.

Does TMS Help With Anxiety? What the Research Says

TMS is FDA-cleared for major depressive disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder. It is not yet FDA-approved for generalized anxiety disorder or panic disorder as standalone diagnoses - making its use for primary anxiety off-label, which is legal and common across many areas of medicine.

The evidence picture is more nuanced than a simple approval status suggests:

• Anxious depression - anxiety co-occurring with depression - has strong supporting evidence, with improvements in both symptom clusters well-documented.
• Research on TMS for generalized anxiety, PTSD, and social anxiety is growing, with studies showing meaningful symptom reductions.
• Clinicians regularly observe anxiety improvements in patients treated for depression, confirming real overlap in underlying brain circuits.

The clearest summary: Does TMS help with anxiety? Evidence is strongest when anxiety co-occurs with depression, and increasingly promising - though still emerging - for anxiety disorders on their own.

TMS vs. Medication: How to Choose

Neither TMS nor medication is the right answer for everyone. They work differently, and the better choice depends on your individual history and clinical situation.

Some people use TMS instead of medication. Others add it to an existing regimen to deepen a partial response. The right answer comes from a clinical evaluation - and the team at Amae Health conducts that evaluation before any TMS course begins.

Who Is a Good Candidate for TMS Therapy for Anxiety?

TMS therapy for anxiety tends to be most appropriate for people who:- Have tried at least one medication without adequate relief

• Experience anxiety that co-occurs with depression
• Cannot tolerate medication side effects, or have medical reasons to avoid certain drugs
• Want a non-systemic option alongside existing therapy
• Are stable enough for outpatient treatment and can commit to 4-6 weeks of sessions

Who Should Avoid TMS?

TMS is not appropriate for everyone. It is generally not recommended for people with:

• A history of seizures or epilepsy
• Metal implants near the head or skull (cochlear implants, certain aneurysm clips)
• Active mania or a mixed mood episode
• An acute psychiatric crisis requires a higher level of care

If any of these apply to you - or if you are unsure - a clinical consultation will give you a clear answer. Do not self-screen out; let a qualified clinician assess your situation. You can also read about how anxiety-related conditions present and are evaluated on the Amae Health blog.

What to Expect During TMS Treatment

Treatment Schedule and Session Length

A standard TMS for anxiety course runs five days per week for four to six weeks - 20 to 30 sessions total, each lasting 20 to 40 minutes. Some accelerated protocols compress treatment into fewer weeks; your provider will recommend the right approach.

What It Feels Like

You will feel a rhythmic tapping on your scalp and hear a clicking sound from the device. Some people experience mild scalp tenderness or a light headache in the first sessions - this typically fades within the first week. You stay fully alert and leave without any restrictions.

Side Effects and Safety

TMS has a well-established safety profile. Common minor side effects:

• Mild headache during or after sessions
• Scalp tenderness at the coil site
• Mild fatigue, particularly early in treatment

Serious adverse events are rare and monitored by clinical staff. Unlike ECT, TMS does not affect memory or cognition. Most people drive themselves to every session.

TMS Therapy for Anxiety at Amae Health

If you have made it this far, you are weighing a real decision. Whether TMS therapy for anxiety is right for you depends on your full history, current symptoms, and goals.

At Amae Health, TMS is integrated into a broader psychiatric care plan, coordinated with therapy, medication management (if applicable), and ongoing clinical oversight. Clinicians conduct a thorough evaluation before recommending TMS, monitor progress throughout, and adjust the plan as needed. If TMS is not the right fit, you will know that clearly, along with a better picture of what is.

Getting started is simple:

1. Schedule a consultation - call 1-888-860-2825 or use the Amae Health contact page to arrange your initial psychiatric evaluation.
2. Complete your clinical evaluation - a clinician reviews your treatment history, current symptoms, and contraindications to determine whether TMS therapy for anxiety is appropriate.
3. Begin your individualized plan - if TMS is recommended, your schedule is set, and your care team stays involved throughout.

You do not have to keep cycling through treatments without a real clinical partner. Reach out to Amae Health in LA and take the next step toward a less anxious life.